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A Final Word
The Six Keys to Spiritual Dating
by Jill Crosby
Spiritual dating is an enlightened way of meeting conscious people. There are no rules or expectations. It’s about being true to yourself and staying in the flow. As we raise our vibrational frequencies and approach fifth dimensional living, it’s important to practice spiritual dating with respect to meeting a life partner as our thoughts and feelings are manifesting quickly. Here are six keys to spiritual dating to help make your experience a positive one.
Remembering Our Divinity
Consider that every person is a divine aspect. Loving ourselves unconditionally and letting ourselves express the tremendous joy that is our divine essence is the basis of spiritual dating. Allow this love of self and joy to radiate outward. It’s much healthier and fulfilling when two souls come together in bliss rather than in desperation and loneliness.
Being Present and Open
When we are truly present in the moment, we are open to meeting the love of our lives. Enjoy each encounter, whether or not that person is a potential mate. Be receptive and conscious of who might be coming into your space, wherever you may be. Be bold; say hi to people, initiate conversations and smile!
Being Realistic
Chemistry comes in all shapes and sizes. Realize that our “types” have most likely been created by mass media programming. Break free of this illusion, or the matrix, if you will. Allow yourself to feel another person’s heart and soul. As we thoroughly enjoy and experience every person we encounter, we appreciate their uniqueness and see their divinity.
Being Real
Being real means letting your guard down and getting out of the ego-centered self. It’s being yourself without trying to impress or show off. By expressing our true selves, we send out that energy to the quantum field and magnetize a partner who is also being real.
Listening
When you’re on a date, practice active listening. Instead of planning out what we’re going to say next, or worrying about how we look, active listening involves being 100 percent present and focused on the other person while he/she is speaking. Allow time for silence and just being together. Remember to breathe and relax.
Staying in the Flow
Getting out of your head and following your heart is the essence of staying in the flow. When we are tapped into our divinity, we know what to do, where to go, and whom to talk with. When we’re in the flow, there is no “thinking things through” for hours, days or weeks—it just happens. Being open to whatever is in our highest good for each moment and trusting that we are being perfectly guided by our higher selves (that part of us that always remembers its divine connection), is the key to staying in the flow. Letting go of expectations and preconceived ideas about what something “should” look like or be is essential.
Spiritually dating creates a fun, enriching experience to be savored and thoroughly enjoyed. When these six keys are put into practice, results happen quickly, making it possible to experience a blissful, devoted, loving relationship in no time, so enjoy the process!